A Letter to my Children

A Letter To My ChildrenDear Riley and Connor,

I may never again get the chance to sit down and do this. You are two active, precocious, lovable, beautiful children who create your own energy together, the way an intense fire creates its own whirlwind. You spin and fly and run and think, and the threshold where I can no longer keep up is rapidly approaching.

Before frustration causes me to forget what I believe when it comes to parenting, I wanted to put my promises to you in writing.

I will try to be a different kind of parent. I’m sure everyone says this, but this is more and more a world of hate and ignorance, where a lot of people get their principles from a mob mentality. It is dangerous and I will not be a part of it.

I will always try to earn your trust and respect, not to demand or expect it from you without deserving it.

I will be less than perfect, and we will not always agree. You may hate me for what I do, but I will always try to do what is right and what is best for you and for our family, not for myself.

I will never try to humiliate you, especially in front of your friends (though I may sometimes be inadvertently embarrassing).

I will never lash out against you when I am hurt.

I will not try to be your friend, but will use my experience as an adult who was once a child, to guide you and lead you.

I will also let you lead me.

I will never, ever act like a child to punish you. I will sometimes act like a child when it drives us closer, not further apart.

I will never try to alienate you. You will feel like hitting me at times, and you even will. I will never retaliate with violence.

Yes, I will spoil you.

I promise to lose games to you. I promise to lose races to you. I promise to never keep score.

I promise that you can say anything you want to me, and you can also keep secrets from me.

I promise that you can complain and vent about me, to whomever you want, and I will not respond in kind.

I promise to laugh at your jokes and cry when you hurt me, but I will never try to hurt you back.

I will to never try to intimidate or bully you.

I will fail at times, but I will always try to fix my mistakes.

I will not make sense all the time, and you will hate me for it.

I promise that I will know this.

I will silently weep in frustration as I watch you copy my own mistakes. I may try to help you avoid them, and I may stand by while you resist. I will not get in your way when you make your own decisions.

I will try to help you see and experience as much as I can give you, and it will be much more than I ever knew myself.

I will offer unqualified support and hope.

I will give you opportunities, not chores.

I will give you chances, not strikes.

I will give you wings, not shackles.

I will love you, no matter what you do or say.

It is not just love that matters, but what we do with it. I promise that I will use it to be your foundation.

I will be your ground, and the sky will be your limit.

Sincerely,

Your father, Tom Bishop

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Why Run?

Training for Team Playworks Run for Recess in the Boston Marathon 2012I remember exactly when I began running. It was March 2005. The days were getting longer, and it was just a few weeks before we set the clocks forward for Daylight Savings Time. I decided I was sick of being overweight and I needed to expend some nervous energy.

Why was I nervous? For a few months, I had begun to realize our family business, a hair salon, wasn’t going to make it. After a year and a half, revenues were still rising, but not quite enough to cover costs. The writing was on the wall, so I hit the pavement.

My first run went a quarter mile, down to the corner store. I got to the corner and doubled over in exhaustion. Oh my God, I wondered as I bent staring at the sidewalk, was I just going to be unable to run? Were some people naturally athletic while others, myself included, just naturally… not?

It wasn’t like I was a cow. I was an expert skier and a whitewater paddler, though I’d been out of those sports for a couple of years while opening the salon. But now that things there were in flux I wanted to get back into shape. Even the running was supposed to be a precursor to something I really wanted to do; join a gym. But first I wanted to see if I could lift my fitness to a point where I could walk into a gym without looking and feeling like a charity case.

So this first quarter mile wasn’t all that encouraging. I walked the rest of the three-mile course I’d mapped out and got to it again the next morning. This time making it another block before walking.

Before long I learned to pace myself, and was able to run the entire thing within two weeks. My time improved to the point where I could actually start caring about it. I joined the gym in June and enjoyed the best ski seasons I’d ever had.

The running continued. I entered races. By 2007 I was putting in a 7 minute pace for shorter (<3mi) races and a sub-8 minute pace for longer ones. I was starting to run 10k and 10 mile courses, and enjoying it. At some point it’s not exercise anymore. It’s fun. There’s simply no way around it.

In late 2007, the gym went on hold. The reason? Riley. Riley is a little blond girl my wife Lisa and I met when she was 3 days old, lying in a hospital bed. It’s a vapid cliche to say she changed our lives, but she did.

Early parenthood is when everything kind of pauses so you can focus on a little one. But before long, I think most parents are determined to get back to to the glory days, only this time sharing them with a child. That’s where I am now, back on the roads pushing the pace. There are the obvious reasons: I’m trying to keep in condition for hiking with the kids and get in shape for another great ski year.

And now there’s something even bigger: I’m proud and honored to have been invited to join the Team Playworks Run for Recess, which is running the Boston Marathon on April 16, 2012. Playworks is dedicated to increasing and improving recess in schools across America, which is a very important part of childhood learning.

And I’m raising money for Playworks too.

So why run? For fitness, for training, for a great cause, and for my kids.

And I might add, for fun. That’s why.

South and Middle Carters – with a Bushwhack to 19 Mile Brook

Riley hikes the White MountainsClear days, blue skies, cool breezes, dry ground, and yellow leaves. Fall is here, and it’s time to hit the trails.

I know that sounds like marketing drivel, but really, it is time. I was thinking my hiking season might be over by now, but as long as that sun keeps shining, why quit?

So with apples picked, waterslides slid, amusement parks visited, bikes ridden, and playgrounds hit, all my ducks were in a row for a fine late summer Sunday hike in the Whites. After years of staring at maps and plotting hiking trips, I finally got my chance to try the Carter range. The hiking trip to South and Middle Carter was on.

An Early Start

We reached Pinkham Notch in the darkAfter drinking way too much tea on Saturday evening and waking up several times, I found myself unable to sleep, so around three AM I stumbled down the stairs and loaded the car. Riley and I were on the road well before 4AM.

This meant seeing some things I never thought I would, like North Conway in the pitch dark. I like to avoid McD’s but with every breakfast joint closed there’s no option.

Riley at the 19 Mile Brook Trailhead

After more dark road, the sky finally lightened when we reached Pinkham Notch. At the 19 Mile Brook trailhead, there was some dawdling, dressing and eating our cooling McMuffins, then Riley and I put boots on trail before 7AM.

The Ghost of Irene

The forest near Cowboy Brook in the Carters

During the hike into the forest, I noted two things; one that I planned to look at and another that I didn’t. You see, I was planning to bushwhack back to the 19 Mile Brook Trail from the south arm of the Imp Trail later on, and I wanted to note how open the forest was. It was mostly hardwood mixed with spruce, but with sections of open pine. It appeared to be pretty open, more so than the Black Pond bushwhack to Owl’s Head Mountain. But that whack has a herd path, and the Imp to 19 Mile whack does not.

Hurricane Irene destroyed the hiking trails

The other thing I noted was how the trail was torn up in several places by Hurricane Irene. There were spots that I have no idea how a trail crew will ever fix. It may be that the trail will just be ‘different’ from now on. Someday I will be on a trail crew so I might find out.

19 Mile Brook Bridge Destroyed by Hurricane IreneAround a mile in, we reached the half-bridge caused by the hurricane. I looked downriver and saw the splintered other half among the rocks. Further along, the Carter Dome Trail begins and climbs a deep ravine to Zeta Pass between Mt. Hight and South Carter. It follows what I think is a relocation, then crosses its brook at a place where the hurricane damage is obvious in the extreme.

Yes We Cairn

Hurricane Irene Destroyed the 19 Mile Brook Bridge

The flooded rivers were pretty damaging to their banks, but they were especially violent around crossings. Where a trail crosses a brook, it opens the forest to the river, and the raging waters follow the trails as well as the riverbeds. At most crossings, at least one end of the trail is headed downstream, so the trail is severly undermined and obscured.

In this case, both ends of the trail headed downstream far enough for the crossing itself to be tough to find. But I learned only after spending a generous chunk of time looking for it. First, I looked upriver and saw a cairn, so I followed the ledges for awhile looking for the next cairn. I even built a few myself, all the while wondering why I only found one. Then I crossed and found a spot that appeared to be trampled, but it petered out immediately. I got back into the riverbed and looked downstream.

Ridge Walk in the Carter Range from Zeta Pass

It was Riley who saw it. “The trail, daddy!” she said. I told her, yes, that’s the way we came. “No, there!” she said, pointing to the other side, where sure enough, the trail started again after several yards of ravaged sandy riverbank and boulder field. We headed down. I destroyed all my cairns as well as the first one I saw, and built a couple more to define a sharp bend at the crossing.

On The Ridge

The Wild River Valley from the Carter-Moriah Trail

We got to Zeta Pass around 10AM and bulked up on raisins and warmer clothes. The ridge walk was on. From here it was a short climb to South Carter, where I never saw a sign, but it was an obvious peak with slabs of granite just to the west of the trail. We continued on to Middle Carter, with me carrying Riley, and I was purposely moving slow to avoid sweating. We ate our chocolate, crackers and raisins at Middle Carter around noon and headed down to the North Carter trail.

The Presidential Range from the CartersThe summits themselves were treed in, but there were several spots on the ridge with fine views of the Wild River Valley on the east side and the Presidentials on the west. With the viewless summits, I have to say I would recommend this hike as a two-day ridge walk that includes Wildcat, the Carter Notch hut and Carter Dome. In fact, someday I might just do that.

The Bushwhack Crew

Cowboy Brook in the Carter RangeOn the way down, we met another hiker, a marathoner, who was planning to reach 5 more 4000-foot summits before the 2011 season ended. We talked about hiking, running, kids, and the bushwhack I was planning to do. Since he had also parked at 19 Mile Brook, he asked to join me on this adventure, and I thought it was an excellent idea, especially considering the dangers inherent in this sort of thing.

By my estimation, we would reach the point where the trail turned north at around 2:20PM. We were in the middle of talking about Boston Marathon qualifying times when suddenly we realized we could hear the stream, Cowboy Brook. The trail turned north (confimed by compass). The forest around us ‘felt’ like a 1900-foot forest. The contour looked like the map. So the bushwhack was about to begin.

The Crossing of Cowboy Brook in the Carter Range

I was told by hikers on Middle Carter that there would be a small path leading toward the brook, but I also knew that most advice about this whack involves either an old or a new logging road leading to Camp Dodge. Sans path, Marathoner and I dropped toward the brook through mostly open pine, easily crossed it, scrambled up the steep bank on the other side, and started following our bearing.

The Imp to 19-Mile Trail Bushwhack

The Bushwhack from the Imp Trail to the 19 Mile Brook Trail

My USGS contour map shows a low, broad ridge running west with a narrow hump at the west end, toward the parking lot. The hump separated us from 19 Mile brook and the lot, and was steep on the other side. A bearing of 290 headed straight toward the lot, but down the steepest part of the hump, while 275 skirted its southern side and dropped to 19 Mile about a tenth from the trailhead.

The Bushwhack Forest in the Carter RangeThe forest thickened with birch and maple saplings. Bushwhacking isn’t only about swiping through saplings and bushes, but also about spider webs. Halfway across the ridge, we crossed an overgrown logging road. It was pretty obvious as a long clearing that arced toward the north, with double ruts underfoot. It was probably heading for Camp Dodge. We crossed it and ducked into the thick woods. The sun at 2:30PM seemed to be about 5 degrees or so south of our track, so following it was an easy way to cheat. There were some clouds, but luckily I was carrying the kind of compass that works even without sun (that’s a joke, folks).

The thick woods continued for awhile and we started to climb slightly. Soon enough, we reached the hump and its steep west side. The forest opened into large pines, and after crossing a marshy area at the bottom, the grade eased, the saplings thickened again, and 19 Mile Brook came into view. It took maybe 30 minutes to cross untracked (at least in a few years) woods covering about 7 tenths of a mile.

The 19 Mile Brook Trail in the Carter RangeWe followed the trail to the parking lot, reaching it after about a tenth, as planned. Marathoner was on his way, with the Kinsmans, Garfield, Carrigain and Jackson still to reach this year. Great choices to finish. Good luck with those 5 peaks!

A thought about bushwhacking: I would have never tried it unless the terrain was fairly simple, like an obvious ridge or brook bed; not too steep, since at some point a hillside becomes exposed boulders and cliffs; and not too far, for obvious reasons.

I’m sure this seems like a minor accomplishment, like successfully brewing a pot of coffee, but it was pretty important to me to nail this bushwhack. To answer the questions: Why? What do you get from it? I can only say: Why does anybody do anything?

-Tom

South and Middle Carters: The Plan

South and Middle Carter Trail Map

You can see the point where the Imp trail reaches Cowboy Brook, where the bushwhack begins.

Ha! George Washington gets one mountain in the Whites, while Jimmy Carter gets four! Okay, maybe Carter Dome, South, Middle and North Carter are named for someone else, but from their summits one can sure look up to Washington like Carter likely did (or, actually, from viewpoints near these partially-wooded peaks).

So the plan this Sunday (Sep 18, 2011) is to reach South Carter with Riley via the 19 Mile Brook Trail, Carter Dome Trail, and the Carter-Moriah Trail, then cross to Middle Carter, and take the North Carter Trail to the Imp Trail back to the car. SCREEEEEECH! Wait, what? Someone put the needle on the record… Can’t you see on the map that loop don’t close?

Yeah, it annoys a lot of hikers who want to reach these two peaks. The Imp trail veers north at a point where Cowboy Brook drops to Route 16. To stay on the trail means putting an extra mile or two between you and your car at 19 Mile. A lot of people bushwhack down the brook from here, or follow the Imp Trail to a point where a logging road leads to Camp Dodge.

I’ve decided to try to bushwhack right over the hump between the trails directly to the 19 Mile parking lot. The bearing is 290 magnetic from where you have to cross Cowboy Brook. a bearing of 235 brings you over the ridge to the next drainage, a small tributary of 19 Mile Brook a little further from the lot. The forest is supposed to be open hardwoods, so we’ll see.

Onward.

Lakes of the Clouds, the Dry River, The Hurricane, and Riley

Riley reaches Lakes of the Clouds hut

Here it is, the big trip report I’ve been trying to write for a couple of years now. When Riley and Connor came into my life, I was hoping to spend as much time as I could playing with them and writing about it. Since then, it’s been about 90% playing, 9% planning to play, and 1% writing. This is that 1%.

It turns out a three year old doesn’t play much baseball or chess. They like playgrounds, especially the ones near busy roads they can run into and basketball courts they can invade to disrupt the game. We go to one with a 40″ high chain-link fence, which my kids regard as more of a suggestion than a barrier.

These aren’t baloney babies. These are the kids who are so insane that their parents often get glared at by others. I’ve even crafted a response for when someone opens their mouth to me: “I’m sorry, we’re doing the best we can.” Then if they keep talking, I can say “I told you I was sorry, so now you’re just being a douchebag.”

I’m still waiting to use that one.

The Rules

So my kids are wanderers, and climbers. The solution to this is obvious: Let’s hike. This is a perfect sport for parents with kids under four because:

  1. Both parent and child can get some air and exercise.
  2. It’s cheap or even free.
  3. Toddlers can easily grasp the rules.
  4. Toddlers can easily master the skills.
  5. (This is for the wise-asses) It’s repeatable.

There are rules for the parents, too. These are much the same as the rules any hiker should adhere to, except you have to double everything, including the level of caution taken with every step. Unless you have amazing friends who will hike with someone carrying a child, it is very likely you will be hiking alone.

Things (And People) That Matter

Connor inspects the Kelty FC3 Child CarrierNone of what I’ve done over the past three years would be possible without a few very important things: a nearby landscape of hills and mountains to explore (including the Lynn Woods just a mile away); the Kelty FC3 child carrier; a great pair of boots in my Merrell Chameleon Mids; and a very sturdy hiking staff (I put a lot of weight on this piece of lumber when carrying, which would destroy trekking poles).

Ryan and Tom on the bridge

Photo Courtesy of Eric Watts

Finally, I have to thank my friends who joined me on several adventures. There’s Ryan, who was with us on trips to Sunapee, Tecumseh and Cannon, and whose GPS device always helped to verify something we had already guessed: we were indeed somewhere on the mountain.

Riley visits Tuckerman Ravine

Photo Courtesy of Eric Watts

And there’s Eric, who was with us on countless trips, starting with Gunstock in July 2009, through Greylock, then our windy traverse up the Edmands path to the Crawford path, to the absolutely triumphant early spring 2011 visit to Tuckerman Ravine, to Cardigan, Sandwich Dome, and the traverse of Specked Mountain in Maine where we met my Dad and his wife Judy coming up the other side.

Riley with The North Face Lunarfire tentThere’s the trip to Wachusett, where Connor and I were disappointed at the high elevation of the trailhead so we headed down to a lower one below the ski slopes. This is where, on a whim, I decided to see if anything was happening in the lodge, only to find a gear swap going on. I found a perfect two-person backpacking tent, The North Face Lunarfire, for $100. This opened a lot of possibilities.

And there’s Acadia, where I first dared to step onto wild rock and dirt with Riley in the Kelty. Cadillac Mountain will always be the first. At the time, Memorial Day 2009, I had no idea how far we’d go tramping all over that island or the Whites. As for Baxter, we’ll see.

The Best Laid Plan

That brings me to the most recent trip: Our first Presidential hut visit. This was originally planned with Eric. We decided to take the same vacation week just before Labor Day, book the Lakes of the Clouds hut to take advantage of the weather, and Riley, Eric and I would head up the Crawford Path, over Pierce, Eisenhower and Monroe to the hut, reach Mt. Washington on day 2, and take the Jewell Trail down to the second car.

Eric had to cancel his plans, but I booked the hut for Monday, August 29 for Riley and myself, and modified the plan a bit. This will all seem a little insane given what wound up happening, but it was a loop I’d been looking at for awhile. I planned to follow the Crawford path and the summit loops to the hut as planned, but instead of reaching Washington, we would head over Boott Spur to Mt. Isolation, then cross the Dry River Valley to the Mizpah Springs hut and back down to the car.

For a regular hiker, this is a small challenge. For me, who will carry over 60 lbs for much of the trip, this is asking a lot. The first day is about 8.5 miles rising over 3,000 feet which is no big deal, but the second day travels 14 miles, first rising across the tundra to Boott Spur, then dropping along the Davis Path, making a 2.4 mile detour to reach Mt, Isolation, then dropping into the Dry River valley. That’s where the parts I was worried about began: Would the Dry River be crossable; and would an otherwise easy 1,200 foot climb to the Mizpah Springs hut be too much to bear at that late point in the day?

Add to this that Connor and I camped two days in the Pemi Wilderness to climb Owls Head Mountain only a few days before. The stage was set for either a valiant success or a colossal mistake.

Water, Water Everywhere…

Hurricane Irene closes the White Mountain National ForestThere was one additional, critical factor: In the intervening days, New England was hit by Irene, a hurricane that didn’t seem all that dangerous on paper (in fact it was only a tropical storm when it hit the Whites), but Irene brought several inches of rain that created immediate torrents in every river valley. The water washed out trails, brought down trees, raised the water table and basically overwhelmed the environment.

It also closed the forest. The White Mountains were closed from Saturday, the day Connor and I left the Pemi, to Tuesday morning, only a few hours before Riley and I showed up at the Crawford trailhead. We found the Kancamagus highway closed due to road damage, and route 302 through Crawford Notch was also closed below the AMC’s Highland Center. That was just a hint of what had happened in the woods.

Day 1: The Early Bird Gets The…

With my Monday reservations now moved to Tuesday, August 30, Riley and I left the house just after 4AM on Tuesday. We got to Tilton at 5:40 to see the diner still closed (never seen that before). We got to Lincoln at 6:45 to see White Mountain Bagel still closed (never seen that before either). I knew our last chance for breakfast was the Monroe Family restaurant in Twin Mountain, so we got there early and waited.

Riley at the Crawford Path TrailheadWe got to the trailhead around 8AM and geared up pretty quickly. I changed into my boots, made sure I had my money and the right keys (!) with me, and up we went. We took a few shots around the trailhead and beyond, then got on with it. We were the only people on the trail the entire way up. It was especially strange not to face a constant flow of guests coming from the Mizpah hut. We detoured to the hut, where the croo seemed excited to be getting back to business. I did not imagine this, but they and other hut croos had all huddled in their huts during the storm, just in case people were caught in it.

Riley on Mt. PierceRiley hiked the entire section from the hut over Mt. Pierce, where the trees finally open up and reveal what we’re going to be in for. Even though I’d been here before and knew what was coming, it still took my breath from me. I grabbed the camera. Riley took a few poses (that she must have learned from mom), we had some lunch, and kept going. I was struck by how empty the mountains were. Nobody was here. Usually the ridge is teeming with hikers, but hurricane Irene cleared the forest, and we were among the first people to return.

Riley and Connor have different hiking styles. Riley walks along pretty well, and likes to be in the lead. When she gets bored, she starts picking berries or rocks, and likes to be kept interested with songs and stories. She will outwardly demand the pack when she wants to ride. Connor focuses on the trail, which he is exceptionally good at following, even faint herd paths like on Owls Head. He doesn’t care about the berries, but he does like to stop and pick up rocks to signal that he wants to ride in the pack. Both of the kids are able to hike for more than a mile at a time (Two if it’s all downhill).

Cairns, Cairns Everywhere…

Riley and dad on Mt. EisenhowerWe were halfway to Mt. Eisenhower when Riley asked to ride in the pack. I figured she had hiked a mile and a half since Mizpah, for a total of more than two miles. We made it to Eisenhower and kissed the cairn, then on to the shrubby section at Red Pond, where Eric, Connor and I made our decision to avoid this summit a year before.

The Edmands Path junction on Mt. EisenhowerAfter that, I was in new terrain. I started to wonder why there were so many cairns. It seemed like they appeared every 50 feet or so. We rose to Mt. Franklin pretty quickly. I don’t know why this peak gets such short shrift. It is actually quite obvious and allows some amazing views across the Dry River Wilderness. Like its namesake, Franklin plays a critical supporting role in a trek across the Presidentials. And the guy is on the $100, after all.

Riley on Mt. MonroeI scrambled up the steep boulders to Little Monroe and this was the first place where the hike started to feel like work. Riley was cold and ready to go home, or at least reach a nice warm hut. So at Little Monroe we got into our cold weather gear and hiked on. Riley led the way, both of us quacking like a mother duck and ducklings, and she made it the rest of the way, at least half a mile, on foot.

“So Did You Take The Auto Road or the Cog?”

Riley on Mt. MonroeAt Monroe, we saw the Lakes of the Clouds, the hut, and the vast alpine lawn leading across to Boott Spur. Cairns dotted the ridge like telephone poles. We made our way down, arriving well before 4PM. After checking in and grabbing a sticky bun, we hung out in front where a crowd from Montreal and elsewhere were singing along to a ukelele. Riley, to the enjoyment of most and perhaps the annoyance of others, has absolutely zero social fear. As a parent who knows that this is a rare and essential trait, I am loathe to try to teach her otherwise.

When seeing a hiking family with a three-year-old at the Lakes hut, it is obviously customary to ask, “So did you take the auto road or the cog?” This was my favorite question of the day, and I was asked it several times. After revealing what we had actually done to get there, my next favorite question was “Wow. How far did she hike?” She probably did three miles on her own.

After a phenomenal dinner of seasoned beef and broccoli, Riley and I read some of the hut’s books in the great room where an AT thru-hiker made a presentation. I made a field fix to her hiking shoes, which came with a goofy spring-loaded plastic sleeve instead of just shoelaces. I had been dreading the next part, but she fell asleep in my arms, and I carried her to her bunk, where she slept soundly until the 6:30AM wakeup call.

One thing I did not realize about the hut was how much light can be seen in the valley. My bunk had a direct view toward the Mt. Washington Hotel and its lines of bright orange streetlamps.

Day 2: “Nobody’s Going To Be Down There”

I awoke shortly before the morning call from the croo. The window glowed pure white, and I was wondering if all the water in the valleys would create morning fog that rose just to the hut’s foundation, leaving only the peaks visible above a sea of white. Instead, all was white above and below.

After a breakfast of bacon and hotcakes, I talked to Jim, one of the croo, about our plans to follow the Davis Path to Mt. Isolation and then through the Dry River valley to the Mizpah Springs hut. The look of concern I received did not surprise me. This was an ambitious second-day plan for a hiker without a child. “That place was hit hard by the hurricane,” he told me. “There are a ton of washouts and blowdowns. It’s a mess.”

“Oh, and absolutely nobody’s going to be down there,” Jim added. The implication being that if something happened, I would have to be extremely lucky to get help. These words are often true in the mountains anyway, but when somebody like an experienced hut croo member says them, they seem a lot more ominous. The hurricane had damaged the landscape and cleared the forest of people, definitely creating a very unique challenge. I believe we had everything we needed to continue.

We said our goodbyes and headed out into the fog. Visibility was about 75 feet, immediately solving the mystery of why there were so many cairns. Riley hiked most of the way to Boott Spur, then napped while we dropped below treeline on the Davis Path, trading the perils of extreme weather for extreme remoteness. After reaching Mt. Isolation, Riley and I ate some of our crackers and raisins, but not all of it. The croo member’s words were still running in my head like a Times Square stock ticker. We stayed awhile, and probably left the peak around 1PM.

Isolation is a gorgeous peak with incredible views. I write this because my iPhone was out of power and I did not get a single shot of the second day. We had amazing views across Tuckerman and Huntington Ravines from Boott Spur, and the clearing clouds added an absolutely wild and sublime patina to the landscape. Isolation looks toward Mt. Washington, with Boott Spur reaching to the east and the southern Presidentials reaching west, like a giant granite embrace. beyond the Presis, mountain ranges successively rise to the west, first the Willey range, then the Twins and Bonds, with the Franconias visible beyond. Carrigain and Moosilauke are prominent to the southwest, and all of the Sandwich range can be seen from Jennings Peak to Chocorua’s trademark cone. The Carters and Baldfaces rise to the east, and Washington was completely clear of clouds.

From there we headed back to the trail that would take us down into the devastated Dry River valley. We did meet some hikers: two who came up from Route 16 to reach Isolation, and one we had met on Monroe the day before who had come through the valley. He repeated much that Jim the croo member had already told me, minus the part about nobody being there, since he already had. It was 2PM.

The Dry River Valley

I headed down the Isolation trail to the point where it reached Isolation brook, where everything I was told was confirmed. Landslides above the brook had obliterated the trail and washed countless trees into the river. The grey mud was thick, soft and deep, and at one point it swallowed my leg up to my knee while I was trying to reach a river boulder. Nothing was to be trusted. The rocks and mud were all in places they hadn’t been a few days before. I stood on some boulders in the middle of the still rushing stream, using logs, trees and rocks to pick my way down. In several places, I could reach where the trail started up again on the bank, only to collapse into the river again. It might have been better to follow the boulders in the river itself for the next half mile to the trail junction. I chose to stay within sight of the trail no matter what.

When we reached the Dry River trail, things calmed down. This trail is not so close to its namesake, which has a larger bed to handle sudden floods (which it frequently does). We saw a lot of evidence of new scourings of the banks and new boulders in the stream. The crossing of the Dry River required me to get one boot wet, but was otherwise unproblematic. I had a dry set of socks and hiking shoes with me, which I would stop and put on as soon as we climbed far enough above the streams.

Now came the part I was dreading: the 1,200 foot climb over 2.5 miles to Mizpah hut. From there it was another 2.5 miles to the car. The climb looked easy on paper, but I was entering mile ten on the second day of a hike with either 27 or 65 lbs on my back. I was carrying a lot of wet gear by now. On trips like Tripyramid I pretended that the 3 miles of gravel road were just part of the commute, not the hike. But now, no mental acrobatics were going to work. I just had to keep hiking.

We made it to the hut as they were starting dinner (6PM sharp) and talked to the croo member we met the day before. She asked us if we took the ridge back from Lakes, and I said, “Yes, the Davis ridge” (actually called the Montalban Ridge). I was very pleased with the surprised look this received. We drank some water and headed down the Mizpah Cutoff and Crawford Path to the car. We made it down in about an hour, just before the light waned.

This was an incredible trip, and it will easily take a place among some others like the overnight with Connor at Unknown Pond, the backpacking trip with Riley to Zealand and the Bonds, the pre-hurricane Owls Head trip with Connor, the visit to Tuckerman Ravine and the traverse of Speckled Mountain with Eric, the giant Chocorua loop last August, and that trip to Cannon with Eric and Ryan.

Next week: Mt. Waumbek and the formidable Santa’s Village. Hey, don’t laugh. That place can be as interesting and challenging as any 4K.

On Peakbagging

Riley in the White MountainsSo why did I visit Isolation instead of Washington? The reason is simple: I am trying to reach all 48 4,000 foot peaks in New Hampshire with Riley or Connor. It happened while coming down Cannon Mountain in June 2010 with Eric, Ryan and Connor. Eric was in pain, and I told him that this was a much more substantial mountain than the ones we had done already. It was a White, after all. It rose more than 2,000 feet from the trailhead. It was a four. It was the biggest mountain any of us had done that year, and it was the first four I had tried with one of my kids. That’s when I decided I was going to try all of them.

Since then I’ve taken one of the kids up 24 4Ks. I had already reached three others, including Washington, bringing the total to 27. I’m not trying to ‘bag’, ‘get’, or ‘do’ these peaks. I prefer the term ‘reach’, meaning the mountain allows me to attain its summit, provided I make a prepared effort. Every single trip has been a tremendous adventure. We simply haven’t had a bad hike. Some have been strenuous. Some have been hot. Some have been met with limited views. But they have all been epic.

Who I Am (Really)

I was surfing through my Facebook photos recently, in preparation for the inevitable rainy-day sit-down with my Google+ account (I will never get it done if the weather stays sunny). I was struck by the sheer number of hiking and backpacking photos among the batches of goofy stuff I post. I guess you never know what you really are until you see it all combined in one place.

MyLeftOne (Tom Bishop) at Crawford NotchAt Facebook, I post almost nothing about work or marketing, but I force-feed my small group of Facebook friends a firehose of hiking stuff and kid stuff, usually combined.On YouTube, I am a guy who makes moronic videos that often involve banjo music.On Twitter and LinkedIn, I’m a marketing expert who is hyper-interested in brand strategy and social media, email and text marketing technologies (I work for a company that provides online marketing gadgetry, and therefore must play this role).

On this blog, I pretty much do the same, although I sometimes spill my guts in a pathetic self-hating rant. I have no idea why, it just feels cathartic.

So who will I be on Google+? Will I be a fun, interesting, goofy songwriting dude who likes outdoor adventures and writing banjo tunes for his kids, or a total boring douchebag who is truly, really very much into the latest online marketing ‘best practice’ (Seriously, what other kind of person would be truly into that)?

After looking at all those Facebook photos, I think the guy on Google+ will be the hiker, skier, and kayaker who loves playing music and watching sci-fi. I will be the guy who gets called a ‘freerunner’ by kids at the playground (and a ‘retard’ by their parents). I will be the guy who lives every moment waiting for the clock to tick around to the point when I get to play with my kids and bring them on some interesting adventure.

I will be this guy:

Tom Bishop (MyLeftOne) at Tuckerman Ravine

And this guy:

Tom Bishop (MyLeftOne) on The Horn

 And this guy:

Tom Bishop (MyLeftOne) at Smooth Ledge

And this guy:

Tom Bishop (MyLeftOne) in Boston

Go ahead, get to know MyLeftOne at Google+. I promise I will set up my account a little better soon. When it rains.

-Tom

What Preschoolers Can Teach Marketers

I’m kind of a contrarian when it comes to following the rules. Sometimes I just follow my instincts, and sometimes I listen to what my instincts have to say and then do exactly the opposite. Just because. But it has nothing to do with the rules.

The marketing world doesn’t like this. Business punishes those (like me) who fail to follow the rule book.

But I know that the same things that put business success out of reach also make me one blazing hell of a good parent. I take the ‘free range’ approach with my kids. We run and play every single day, rain or shine. I push them to limits that makes most parents turn white. At the playground, my kids are out-jumping and out-climbing kids three times their age. They’re already swimming. By the time they go to kindergarten, they will both have completed a Presidential traverse in New Hampshire’s White Mountains.

Did I mention they are three?

Today my little girl was pushed by an eight-year-old at the park. It may have been on purpose, or maybe not. But she got right up and kept running after him. Sometimes the big kids let my little ones chase them, sometimes the big kids demand they stop. My kids are not the ones who cry for a half-hour after being pushed. They get up and keep going.

I teach them to keep playing. “The other kids say they don’t want to play with you,” I tell them, “but you keep playing with them anyway.”

That’s what the adult world is; a place where nobody wants to play with you. We’re taught to follow the rules. That means if somebody tells us what they want us to do, we do it. We go along to get along.

Screw that.

My kids know that when someone tries to tell them what to do (including me), it’s a test. To pass it, all they have to do is keep pushing. They know the big kid with the tennis ball will eventually start tossing it to them. They know the older kids on the balance beam will finally step aside and give them a turn.They know the kid who pushed them a few minutes before will help them up a few minutes later.

And because of this, I know that physically and socially, they are ahead. I’m not giving parental advice, but I am saying that if you loosen the reins a little, kids will do amazing things. The most important thing they’ve done for me is teach me to keep pushing. Keep trying. Keep advancing. Keep playing even if others have told you to stop.

So throw out the rule book, every day. The latest social media statistics do not matter. Pretty landing pages do not matter. The best email template ever designed does not matter. The words of the book-pimping prima donnas do not matter. Engagement does not matter. ‘Conversations’ do not matter. ‘Brand consistency’ does not matter.

I’m not well-liked by my colleagues or peers in the marketing world, but I am loved by my kids because I let them play and color outside the lines, and I let myself learn from them. And that’s what matters.